Defining Moments

I love MY body!

I always had body image issues, ever since I can remember, even during college I had difficulty accepting my body the way god made it! I had self esteem issues, especially with my facial features, (teeth nose, eyebrows) It lead to cutting, and throwing up. My actions were influenced by the fucked up corrupt media and being around people who were solely about there image. Luckily, I got out of the faze with the help of a couple of people, and my family. One of the things I realized is that one is bullying millions of girls just by small little statements posted on these social networks that one is not consciously aware of . Such as, ” Thick girls wear it better” or those images of a skinny girl being compared to a more thick girl stating This is better than this. Making a lot of girls self conscious about their weight. It infuriates me to read several comments saying, ” I will die if I was ever fat” or “Fuck skinny girls thick girls wear it better”. Why cant all sizes be beautiful?, why does it have to be one or the other? Why can’t we all be sexy in all shapes and sizes!?!? Why do certain women have to mold themselves to fit this “perfect” body, when they are already perfect?

PS: I just needed to vent to someone.